Showing posts with label identity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label identity. Show all posts

Monday, June 24, 2013

Government Against the People

In the shadow of 9/11, the Bush administration developed domestic security and foreign policy that crystallized every racist and paranoid sentiment of White America. This doesn't mean that every white American is racist or paranoid. It means that the paranoid and racist beliefs inherited by White Americans, whether they subscribe to those beliefs or not, was at the forefront of policies and programs such as the no-fly list and the INS Special Registration ofAliens. The Bush Doctrine was the mea culpa since it had the international community and human rights organizations crying foul.

The election of President Obama signaled the expectation that such inherently oppressive policies would be chucked. This had less to do with Obama's party affiliation than his pedigree which is a reflection of the 1960s instead of the 1860s. In the 1860s, Americans fought over whether a person was fit to be enslaved by the virtue of skin color. In the 1960s Americans witnessed the Civil Rights Era, the British Invasion, the dawn of the hippies and a radical shift in American social norms. African-Americans moved from being an after-thought to being in the forefront of the American psyche in politics and media. 1961 is the year Barack Hussein Obama was born to a white mother and a Kenyan father. He was raised by his single mother and later by his maternal grandmother. Obama has publicly discussed his struggle in establishing his identity and core values to align with his bi-racial lineage.

In the 1960s, his bi-racial lineage was an anomaly. Today a bi-racial or mixed lineage is the norm for a majority of Americans. There is still a White America but it is blending with a America whose citizens don't trace their roots back to the Puritans. The probability of meeting a blonde, blue-eyed American today is as much, if not lower in some areas, as of meeting an American who isn't. However, the probability of seeing a blonde, blue-eyed terrorist is as low as seeing Duchess Kate take the subway in rush hour.

The Obama administration followed the previous administration's precedent by reauthorizing NSA surveillance. By extending its scope to encompass all telephonic and web activities of all Americans including press organizations, the Obama administration established a new precedent of pitting the government against the people. The unspoken acknowledgment is that America is not comprised of only blonde, blue-eyed people. There are darker colored Americans of varying lineages. The underlying message is that since blonde, blue-eyed terrorists are rare and darker colored Americans aren't, the government can expect an attack by its citizens. Therefore, instead of protecting the rights of and serving all Americans, the government must arm itself against them by searching for and finding fault with them.

Americans will start to minimize their perceived faults. If the government is looking for terrorists, then Americans will diminish any characteristic or censor any idea that smacks of terrorism. The question is what activity smacks of terrorism? Is it praying in a mosque, is it wearing a turban, is it questioning why we quietly support Saudi Arabia while refuting the legitimacy of the Iranian government, is it stating, “I don't like how America is doing as a country”? Many Americans will think they are safe from scrutiny or prosecution because of their skin color, their creed and their heritage. Many others will subscribe to ideas that are not their own but belong to a “pre-approved” set. That is an unfortunate path to follow. The tragedy is that our elected officials are the ones to direct us to it. The irony is that the first bi-racial President did nothing to stop them.


Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Square One

With the increased visibility of women in TV and movie land, I was under the impression that there are women who direct, write and act about the identity and goals of an American woman. So far, Lena Dunham of Girls, Shonda Rhimes, the creator of Grey's Anatomy, and Kathryn Bigelow,  the director of The Hurt Locker have all shown that American women face an arduous struggle to achieve their only goal of having a baby.

What is wrong with wanting to have a baby? Nothing, except that evolution, biology and history show that a physically healthy woman, regardless of her financial and social standing, her mental health and at times, tragically, without her consent, can have a baby at any time during her child-bearing years which on average span about 25-30 years. Yes, women have almost three decades , that is a baby being born and growing up to hit 30, to have a child.

The factors to consider before having a child such as being able to afford it, educating it and securing its future are salient points only if we are talking about having a child in America. Can anyone explain to rural Indian and Chinese women why they shouldn't have children. What about the women in Sub-Saharan African nations? What about the millions of women refugees living in squalid conditions across the world? 

Point being, women will bear children and be mothers regardless of what is going on in both their world and the world. So, why do we American women insist on making this de-facto human experience an extended journey into melodrama that only stunts our growth as human beings and indulges our selfish, impulsive and nonsensical whims?

Lena Dunham's “Girls” shows how a group of women in their early twenties establish their identity by throwing themselves at every man they come across. Date me, sleep with me, f**k me, treat me like s**t so that when I can better define the makings of a "good" man I will deem myself to be a "successful" woman with a solid worldview. When the tag line for the second season is "I resolve not to let guys treat my heart like monkey meat", I know not to expect lessons on managing upper management, securing a raise, establishing a professional network and identifying professional and personal goals.

Shonda Rimes and her "baby" Meredith Grey played by Ellen Pompeo is a perfect example for women wanting their babies to have babies. Grey's mom, Ellis,is a renowned surgeon who tells Grey to stop reveling in her daydreams of a married guy and start trying to be extraordinary. Of course such "heartless" advice can only come from a woman who fought against rampant sexism to achieve professional goals while struggling to care for a child that societal norms dictated she have with an ineffectual bumbling buffoon of a husband who wasn't intelligent enough to keep up with her. See? Even a dedicated surgeon can't escape being married and having a child, but Meredith Grey spends seven seasons struggling to gain foothold in the elusive department of Relationship Management, Marriage & Children.

Kathryn Bigelow was the first woman to win Best Director for her movie The Hurt Locker, which follows and an American bomb squad diffusing IEDs in Iraq. With every bomb these soldiers have to diffuse they face an existential crisis as they literally hold their lives in their own hands.  Great movie, but here is the kicker. The only woman in the movie is Jeremy Renner's girlfriend who has a child with him despite their shaky relationship. This girlfriend doesn't know how Renner's character is doing and if he will stay put once he returns but she bears and cares for their child. So, what do women viewers walk away with? "I understand how terrible it is for the soldiers out there. The least a woman can do is have his baby."

The fact that I cannot recall the name of the actress for her Emmy winning work in ABC's acclaimed series Lost but I remember the name of a guy who is only three blockbusters old shows how memorable women characters are in Oscar movies, but hey, they get to have babies.

So, where does this leave me? It leaves me with a higher disregard for movies, TV shows and performance pieces created, directed or made by women. When acclaimed works by women only focus on the "struggle" to have a baby, it puts women of all ages and backgrounds in a box where their roles are specific to the functioning of their reproductive systems. It discredits the struggle of a working mom demanding a promotion and higher pay, it irreparably influences a teen girl's expectations of herself, it puts a hollow ring to a college grad's ambition to achieve professional milestones and it makes older women literally "useless" in their professional and personal lives.

Women are making big strides, but TV and movies still have us slogging at square one.